Bird by Bird

My daughter and I just finished reading Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott.  As my daughter has entered HS and is writing a lot for several classes, this seemed to be a good fit for right now.  It was a little slow for a read aloud, as there is no dialogue.  But, we both enjoyed it.  And, it is always good to hear an author’s writing process.  Anne Lamott is one of my favorite authors, both fiction and non fiction.  This non fiction book, as it states on the cover, is basically “Some instructions on writing and life”  This is very true of Bird by Bird.  There is some advice for writing and making yourself a better writer.  There is also some advice on life and making your life better.  Its a good read, for older children.  There is some foul language, but . . .that’s part of life.

Happy Reading!

The Dead Moms Club


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Ok, so I know this is supposed to be a blog about books to read to your kids, but, I’m sure you read, too.  I pre-ordered this book back in September.  It is written by the very talented Kate Spencer.  I knew her mom (the dead mom of which she writes) and her dad.  I loved her mom, and miss her.  I always say if you read a book and you cant put it down (no matter the subject matter), then it is a success.  This was a tough read for me, but I couldn’t put it down (success!).  While I knew some of the details of Martha’s illness, Kate really gets to the heart of it.  I cried because it was sad, maybe sadder because I knew Martha.  But, there was more laughter than tears.  Laughter, remembering how wonderful and funny Martha was. Laughter, picturing Kate’s dad doing all typical Jim stuff for which we know and love him.  This book is a beautiful love letter to Martha, and also to anyone suffering a loss.

“I like to think of our lives this way; we start with one stone at the bottom and slowly build upwards, experiences and moments balancing precariously on top of each other, making up who we are.  And when elements knock the rocks over, we rebuild, with the same pieces but a new shape.  We are different, misshapen and unsteady, but still whole.”


Everytime I go on Instagram (readingtoyourkids – follow me!), I get overwhelmed by how little I think I am doing.  There are pictures of books that I want to read.  I think “ooh, let’s put this one on our list.”  And, then I see another one that looks good.  It’s overwhelming.  I need to keep to our already several lists of what we want to read.  We are trying to get through as many as we can from the Gilmore Girls list  We also have the books from The Reading Promise.  And, we try to read as many Nutmeg ( nominees as possible so that we can vote for a winner.

No wonder we feel overwhelmed.  Oh, that reminds me, we all should probably re-read Wonder since the movie will be out a week from today.

I will just keep reminding myself that what I have to read is enough.  The curse of social media; it is making me think that I need to more.  To paraphrase Dory  – “just keep reading”.  I will try to keep up with posting!

The Book Thief by Marcus Zusak

This is the third time I am reading this book.  I read it the first time to make sure it was appropriate to read with my daughter.  It was.  But there is some bad language in it – be warned.  And it is about the Holocaust, which in any situation, is simply horrible.  Make sure your child is old enough to handle the subject matter and any discussions that may come from it.  My daughter and I both loved this book.  It is so beautifully written.  The characters are extraordinary.  I highly recommend reading this book aloud with your child.

My son and I are reading this book now, and he also loves it.  There have been some incidents at his school over the past several weeks concerning swastikas and singling out Jewish people.  This book is perfect for the situation at hand.  And . . . reading it aloud with him has started discussions that probably never would have been brought up if we weren’t reading it.

I am a firm believer in family time and talking with your children.  As they get older, it gets harder to talk to them.  By reading books, I am able to engage with them and discuss matters that come up in books, and inevitably, in their own lives.  Just read with your kids!

Happy Reading!

When Charlie McButton Lost Power

We had quite a bit of wind and rain yesterday.  There were some power outages.  What better book to read to your kids than When Charlie McButton Lost Power by Suzanne Collins, illustrated by Mike Lester.  We loved this book when the kids were little.  It might help in this technology filled world to realize that the most fun can be had with your brothers or sisters playing with things around the house.  And, surprisingly, the kids will survive without technology.

Happy Reading!

We’re Back!

I can’t say we’re back and better than ever . . . but we are back.  I am going to try to keep up with this again.  My daughter is going to be helping me out.  Hopefully, as I get my feet wet, I will figure things out.  In the meantime, please be patient with me.

We began ” a streak” a few years ago, just like Alice Ozma and her father (The Reading Promise).  Tomorrow we will have read every night for 1600 days!!!!!  We made up our own rules.  We have to read every night or day, no matter what.  I am reading to both of my children, but when we are on vacation, we read one book together.  When we are pressed for time or its Friday night and I just can’t bear to read 2 chapter books we opt for one book, and its usually one of our favorite picture books (we still have them in our bookcase).  And, as there have been times when I have been travelling, we have welcomed guest readers (grandmother, aunt).

Most of our entries going forward will be books that we have read.  There have been some overlaps with reading to both children.  But, they have very different interests, so there is quite a variety of titles.

Feel free to suggest books!  I am looking forward to making this site worthwhile for everyone who stops by.  Tell your friends!

Inside Out & Back Again

The Nutmeg nominees continue. . .

Inside Out and Back AgainInside Out & Back Again by Thanhha Lai is the story of Ha.  She is 10 years old when her family has to leave Saigon.  They are headed toward America and perhaps a better life.  But, they have left behind all that they know to go to a strange land, strange people, strange food, strange language.  Ha and her brothers have a long year of change, dreaming, grieving, and discovering.  I tell my children this many times, and the many of the books we read have the same message.  You never know what is going on in someone else’s head.  This is true of Ha’s story.  As children, we would witness a new girl at school who looks different and speaks differently.  What do you think she is thinking?  She is not stupid, she just wants to fit in.  Thanhha Lai writes this novel in verse – which was off putting when we first picked it up.  But, it was a wonderful read, and the verse was written so beautifully, it was not difficult to understand all the meanings and/or feelings of the characters.  Both my daughter and I enjoyed this book.

What I think I liked best about this book was the supplemental information at the end of the book – an interview with the author, an activity for readers and their families, discussion questions, and best of all tips from the author about writing poetry.  While I was an English major in college, I never really took to poetry.  This was very helpful to me.  Perhaps I will start writing love poems to my husband! (Ha! – sarcasm)

Happy Reading!

Because of Mr. Terupt

My daughter found the list of Nutmeg Books nominated for 2014.  The Candymakers by Wendy Mass is one of the nominees (  She loved The Candymakers so much that she wants it to win.  She came home one day and told me that she wants to read all the nominees so she can vote for The Candymakers.  And, so, we have begun reading.  Some of the books she would never pick to read,   but, she said she would do it.

First, she decided to get last year’s winner, Because of Mr. Terupt by Rob Buyea.  She read it over one weekend.  It is a wonderful story about a 5th grade class and their year with the new teacher Mr. Terupt.  Each child has a story, and as my daughter said, “it’s a little confusing at first remembering who everyone is, but, you get it.”  It is so important to realize that behind every smile or frown, there is a reason people act the way they do.  Mr. Terupt was able to figure most of the kids out, and in the process became their best teacher.  An accident happens, and it brings the children and their stories together.  Two lessons, I would say I learned, or should be addressed – life is precious and don’t judge a book by its cover.

I’m not sure what the other nominees were for last year (perhaps I’ll find the list and we’ll read all of those), but I am happy that Because of Mr. Terupt won.

Happy Reading!

We are doing this!!!

We are starting with 100 days and see how we do!  I am excited and so are the kids!  I’m currently reading The Wizard of Oz with my daughter.  My son is all about factual books – these days he’s into hawks and eagles.  Imagine how much we will learn!  I’ll keep you posted!


<nyt_headline version=”1.0″ type=” “>A Father-Daughter Bond, Page by Page

Ryan Collerd for The New York Times


Published: March 18, 2010
<nyt_text><nyt_correction_top>MILLVILLE, N.J.

WHEN Jim Brozina’s older daughter, Kathy, was in fourth grade, he was reading Beverly Cleary’s “Dear Mr. Henshaw” to her at bedtime, when she announced she’d had enough. “She said, ‘Dad, that’s it, I’ll take over from here,’ ” Mr. Brozina recalled. “I was, ‘Oh no.’ I didn’t want to stop. We really never got back to reading together after that.”

Mr. Brozina, a single father and an elementary school librarian who reads aloud for a living, did not want the same thing to happen with his younger daughter, Kristen. So when she hit fourth grade, he proposed The Streak: to see if they could read together for 100 straight bedtimes without missing once. They were both big fans of L. Frank Baum’s Oz books, and on Nov. 11, 1997, started The Streak with “The Tin Woodman of Oz.”

When The Streak reached 100, they celebrated with a pancake breakfast, and Kristen whispered, “I think we should try for 1,000 nights.”

Mr. Brozina was delighted, but what he was thinking was, a thousand nights?! “I thought, we’ll never do it,” he recalled. “And then we got to 1,000, and we said, ‘How can we stop?’ ”

For 3,218 nights (and some mornings, if Mr. Brozina was coming home too late to read), The Streak went on. It progressed from James Marshall’s picture books about George and Martha (two close friends who happen to be hippos) to middle-school classics like “When Zachary Beaver Came to Town” to the 14 Oz books (which they read four times each), toHarry PotterAgatha Christie, Dickens and Shakespeare, continuing on, until Kristen’s first day of college.

In those nine-plus years, they survived many close calls. When Kristen was still in elementary school, her father and older sister went to Washington. “The phone rings at 10:45 at the hotel and it’s Kristen,” Mr. Brozina recalled. “She says, ‘Dad, we forgot The Streak!’ Fortunately, I always travel with several books and we read right then and there.”

As Kristen got older, she was active in community theater groups that would rehearse late, and a few dozen times, Mr. Brozina turned up and read to her between scenes. One night, a rehearsal for “I Remember Mama” was supposed to end at 11:30, but the director, upset with the performance, was yelling at the players. “Our rule was we had to read before midnight and it had to be at least 10 minutes,” Mr. Brozina said. “It was 11:45 and he wasn’t letting up.”

“Dad took me off the stage,” Kristen said. “I was 17.”

“We sat in the auditorium and I read to her,” said Mr. Brozina.

Their shared reading provided a shared language. When Mr. Brozina asks if Kristen’s absolutely sure, she’ll answer, “Certain there’s a jertain in the curtain” (Dr. Seuss). If Mr. Brozina orders a hamburger, Kristen will say, “I am a great eater of beef and I believe that does harm to my wit” (Shakespeare, “Twelfth Night” ). By high school, Kristen had a busy social life. “I’d be out with friends, and say, ‘It’s 11:30, we need to stop back at my house.’ A carload of teenagers would come in. They’d play some game or cards in the living room. I’d go upstairs to Dad’s room and he’d read to me.”

“Then she’d go back out with her friends and I’d go to bed,” Mr. Brozina said.

People who knew Kristen and her dad (shown together in the photo above) knew The Streak, and accommodated it. One night, Mr. Brozina was at a woman friend’s house. “Things were progressing very nicely,” he said. “And she jumps up and says, ‘Did you read to Kristen yet?’ Holy smokes, I took off on two wheels.”

Like all earth-shattering acts, there was more to The Streak than met the eye, although for years it was unspoken. About the time The Streak started, Kristen’s family shrunk from six to two in a year’s time. Her two surviving grandparents died. Her sister, who is seven years older, went off to Yale. And her mother left her father. “It was just the two of us,” Kristen said. “The Streak was stability when everything else was unstable. It was something I knew would always be there.

“People kept leaving me, but with The Streak, I knew that nothing would come before The Streak. In high school, I had friends who never talked to their parents. It never occurred to me not to. If someone takes care of you, you want to be with them.”

Her father felt that, too. “With a family of two, I wanted her to be absolutely sure in her mind that I was here for her,” he said.

But he had other reasons. At 61, he’s part of a generation that held reading as an almost magical ticket to upward mobility. He’s been a school librarian here for 38 years, knows most everyone in this modest blue-collar town, and whenever he bumps into one of his former students, the first thing he asks is, “Are you reading?” followed by his mantra: “If you love to read, you’ll probably go to college, maybe for free. You’ll get a better job, get a higher income, live longer.”

Over the years, he has built a collection of 700 of the best books he and Kristen read together. “I don’t have much money to pass on,” he said. “But these books, she’ll read to hers and they’ll read to theirs. And they’ll read to the generations down the lines. It’s a means for me to touch generations I’ll never see. They’ll all be smart. I can’t imagine these books will never be used. Every single one of them is so good.”

“Of course,” he said, “it depends on Kristen.”

“My Streak can be longer than your Streak,” said Kristen. “I’ll start before fourth grade.”

The Streak ended on Sept. 2, 2006. It was Kristen’s first day of college, and it was time. Her dorm room was so crowded with boxes, he read to her in a stairwell. The Streak ended as it began, with L. Frank Baum, the first chapter of his most famous “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz.” “It was hard,” Kristen said. “Not only was I moving away, but we were ending this thousands-of-times tradition. There’s nothing I’ve ever done with that consistency, not even brushing my teeth.”

“I knew it had to be the last,” said Mr. Brozina.

“It wouldn’t have worked,” said Kristen.

“It would have been stringing it out artificially,” he said. “Did you see Willie Mays at the end of his career? Sad. It was past time.”

This spring, Kristen graduates from Rowan University, a half-hour’s drive up the road in Glassboro. She has performed as you’d expect for a product of The Streak, an English major with a 3.94 average.

“One B,” her father said.

“An unfortunate situation,” said Kristen.

She also won two national writing contests, was Resident Assistant of the year, an editor of the humor and literary publications and won the annual English department award.

During college, she didn’t give much thought to The Streak until recently, when she had to write an essay for graduate school, and hunting a topic, realized, “The Streak is kind of interesting.”

Who knows why anyone gets in anywhere, but you’d have to believe The Streak would be a winner, and recently Kristen was accepted to the master’s in liberal arts program at theUniversity of Pennsylvania. She doesn’t have the money to go. But certain as that jertain, the young woman has a plan: She’s going to get a job when she graduates, save and reapply in a year or two.

An Oldie but a Goodie

My daughter and I are always looking for books to read aloud.  I am dreading the day when she doesn’t want me to read to her anymore.  Maybe we’ll be like this father-daughter  What an inspiration – and, I bet if I showed this article to my daughter, she would be willing to do it!  I digress.

The latest book that we have finished is A Cricket in Times Square by George Selden, drawings by Garth Williams.  I used to read this to my first grade class when I was teaching in NYC – I thought it was appropriate given that we all lived in NYC.  I think what my daughter likes best about all the books we read, and she reads on her own is the relationships between the characters.  Chester, the cricket, arrives in the subway station on Times Square and becomes friendly with Tucker, the mouse, and Tucker’s best friend, Harry Cat (yes, a mouse and a cat are best friends).  Mario, the little boy vows to take care of Chester.  His parents, especially his mother, is not very happy about this.  But, Chester begins to play music that she adores.  Chester soon becomes the talk of the town.  Despite all his his new friends, and his new life and adventures, he knows when it is time to go home.

I guess that is true of most people – and recent graduates, take note.  It is important to go out, make new friends, have lots of adventures.  Trust me, you will know when it’s time to go home.

Happy Reading!